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Robert asks…

How can i tell my ex-girlfriend NOT to come back to my house because she is pregnant with another guys baby?

How can i tell my ex-girlfriend NOT to come back to my house because she is pregnant with another guys baby?
So she broke up with me and its been about a year now. I gave her a very nice life when she lived with me in my house. She didn’t have to work, just keep the house clean as this was her choice, she could of work also but i gave her the option to do what she wanted. I worked (my own business) and made enough for us to live very good and have made over 1 million dollars from stocks and bonds and i took care of the bills and our two cars. I have a house in Los Angeles. Well she and her girlfriends went out to a bar while i was at work and she met a guy who just got out a divorce with 3 kids. She ended up breaking up with me and moved with him to San Francisco. There was no phone call or sit-down conversation or anything explaining why she left. She just came home one day and said she was leaving me. Well monday she called saying that she was pregnant (we haven’t spoke in 6 months). I was like umm congrats but i have to go now. She started crying and said she needs my help? I was like umm come again? She said her boyfriend was going to prison because sunday he got CAUGHT selling hardcore drugs to undercover cops and he is facing 5 years in prison (2nd offense) because of the load of drugs they found on his car. She is crying for me to let her come back and live the nice life she took for granted and acourse we all know girls like the badboys until he is to bad and then they always come back to the nice-guys as an second option when things dont work out with the badboy. I know this isn’t my baby because she never wanted to have sex with me and every-time i tried she would push me away but then she goes out and meet this guy and ended up having sex with him that week? Oh-well i guess that’s just another rule on why nice guys shouldn’t be nice guys. She said she is coming down this weekend and i told her NO GO TO A SHELTER OR PARENTS HOUSE! But if she does come where can i direct her to because she sure aint staying with me again?

financi4 answers:

Okay your right on 3 counts the first count i say this in the most kind way possible its not your child and 2nd count she cheated thats a huge deal cause she lied not to mention umm the whole crimnal thing and the 3rd thing it will screw up your love life i don’t know if your dating anyone else right now but it could be a bad thing for the relationship my advice above all else is to tell her what you told her before and then if she does not leave then call the cops and let them deal with her

Daniel asks…

How can i tell my ex-girlfriend NOT to come back to my house because she is pregnant with another guys baby?

So she broke up with me and its been about a year now. I gave her a very nice life when she lived with me in my house. She didn’t have to work, just keep the house clean as this was her choice, she could of work also but i gave her the option to do what she wanted. I worked (my own business) and made enough for us to live very good and have made over 1 million dollars from stocks and bonds and i took care of the bills and our two cars. I have a house in Los Angeles. Well she and her girlfriends went out to a bar while i was at work and she met a guy who just got out a divorce with 3 kids. She ended up breaking up with me and moved with him to San Francisco. There was no phone call or sit-down conversation or anything explaining why she left. She just came home one day and said she was leaving me. Well monday she called saying that she was pregnant (we haven’t spoke in 6 months). I was like umm congrats but i have to go now. She started crying and said she needs my help? I was like umm come again? She said her boyfriend was going to prison because sunday he got CAUGHT selling hardcore drugs to undercover cops and he is facing 5 years in prison (2nd offense) because of the load of drugs they found on his car. She is crying for me to let her come back and live the nice life she took for granted and acourse we all know girls like the badboys until he is to bad and then they always come back to the nice-guys as an second option when things dont work out with the badboy. I know this isn’t my baby because she never wanted to have sex with me and every-time i tried she would push me away but then she goes out and meet this guy and ended up having sex with him that week? Oh-well i guess that’s just another rule on why nice guys shouldn’t be nice guys. She said she is coming down this weekend and i told her NO GO TO A SHELTER OR PARENTS HOUSE! But if she does come where can i direct her to because she sure aint staying with me again?

financi4 answers:

Well, hopefully you’ve changed the locks on your house. If not, do it NOW! Don’t get sucked into her drama. She left without so much of a thank you and now she needs / wants your help. She needs to take some responsibility for her actions. Point her to her girlfriends house. Where are her parents? You can’t rescue her and look yourself in the mirror without feeling like an idiot. Because, that’s what you would be. I understand where you’re coming from, but you need to be strong for you.

John asks…

How can i tell my ex-girlfriend NOT to come back to my house because she is pregnant with another guys baby?

So she broke up with me and its been about a year now. I gave her a very nice life when she lived with me for 2 years in my house. She didn’t have to work, just keep the house clean as this was her choice, she could of work also but i gave her the option to do what she wanted. I worked (my own business) and made enough for us to live very good and have made over 1 million dollars from stocks and bonds and i took care of the bills and our two cars. Were were not married but getting there. I have a house in Los Angeles. Well she and her girlfriends went out to a bar while i was at work and she met a guy who just got out a divorce with 3 kids. She ended up breaking up with me and moved with him to San Francisco. There was no phone call or sit-down conversation or anything explaining why she left. She just came home one day and said she was leaving me. Well monday she called saying that she was pregnant (we haven’t spoke in 6 months). I was like umm congrats but i have to go now. She started crying and said i need your help? I was like umm come again? She said her boyfriend was going to prison because sunday he got CAUGHT selling hardcore drugs to undercover cops and he is facing 5 years in prison (2nd offense) because of the load of drugs they found on his car. She is crying for me to let her come back and live the nice life she took for granted and acourse we all know girls like the badboys until he is to bad and then they always come back to the nice-guys as an second option when things dont work out with the badboy. She said she is coming down this weekend and i told her NO GO TO A SHELTER OR PARENTS HOUSE! But if she does come where can i direct her to because she sure aint staying with me again?

financi4 answers:

You need to be absolutely straight with her because if she thinks that there’s any chance she can use you again, she will.

On the one hand, I’m sure you’re sensitive to the fact that she’s obviously having a hard time at the moment, BUT she is a grown woman, and she’s made her bed – now she has to lie in it.

I would just be honest with her and tell her how you feel. Email her, call her, but don’t meet with her because she’ll find a way to manipulate your feelings in a face-to-face scenario. Try something like this:

“I’m sorry you’re having a hard time at the minute, but I’m not going to be part of your life anymore. You left me at the drop of hat and have been very happy for months without me, and you’re only in touch with me now because you’re in trouble now and you want me to bail you out, but I’m not going to. I suggest you go stay with your parents at the minute, or go to a shelter, but you can’t come here. You’ve made it clear that you’re not interested in a relationship with me anymore, even as friends, and I don’t appreciate the fact that you’re only talking to me now because you want me to help you, rather than you wanting to talk to me. I’m sorry, but you’re a grown up and you have to sort your own problems out. You made the decision to leave me, and now you have to respect the fact that I don’t want you back. I wish you all the best, but please don’t contact me again – I won’t be used.”

It sounds harsh, but then she was harsh to you by leaving you at the drop of a hat. It has nothing to do with the life she lead with you, it’s just that she chose not to be part of your life and she can’t just drop in and out of your life when she chooses. Think about this – if she never got pregnant, and if her bf wasn’t going to prison, would she be in contact? I think not.

Richard asks…

How can i tell my ex-girlfriend NOT to come back to my house because she is pregnant with another guys baby?

So she broke up with me and its been about a year now. I gave her a very nice life when she lived with me in my house. She didn’t have to work, just keep the house clean as this was her choice, she could of work also but i gave her the option to do what she wanted. I worked (my own business) and made enough for us to live very good and have made over 1 million dollars from stocks and bonds and i took care of the bills and our two cars. I have a house in Los Angeles. Well she and her girlfriends went out to a bar while i was at work and she met a guy who just got out a divorce with 3 kids. She ended up breaking up with me and moved with him to San Francisco. There was no phone call or sit-down conversation or anything explaining why she left. She just came home one day and said she was leaving me. Well monday she called saying that she was pregnant (we haven’t spoke in 6 months). I was like umm congrats but i have to go now. She started crying and said she needs my help? I was like umm come again? She said her boyfriend was going to prison because sunday he got CAUGHT selling hardcore drugs to undercover cops and he is facing 5 years in prison (2nd offense) because of the load of drugs they found on his car. She is crying for me to let her come back and live the nice life she took for granted and acourse we all know girls like the badboys until he is to bad and then they always come back to the nice-guys as an second option when things dont work out with the badboy. I know this isn’t my baby because she never wanted to have sex with me and every-time i tried she would push me away but then she goes out and meet this guy and ended up having sex with him that week? Oh-well i guess that’s just another rule on why nice guys shouldn’t be nice guys. She said she is coming down this weekend and i told her NO GO TO A SHELTER OR PARENTS HOUSE! But if she does come where can i direct her to because she sure aint staying with me again?

financi4 answers:

Change the locks.

David asks…

How can i tell my ex-girlfriend NOT to come back to my house because she is pregnant with another guys baby?

So she broke up with me and its been about a year now. I gave her a very nice life when she lived with me in my house. She didn’t have to work, just keep the house clean as this was her choice, she could of work also but i gave her the option to do what she wanted. I worked (my own business) and made enough for us to live very good and have made over 1 million dollars from stocks and bonds and i took care of the bills and our two cars. I have a house in Los Angeles. Well she and her girlfriends went out to a bar while i was at work and she met a guy who just got out a divorce with 3 kids. She ended up breaking up with me and moved with him to San Francisco. There was no phone call or sit-down conversation or anything explaining why she left. She just came home one day and said she was leaving me. Well monday she called saying that she was pregnant (we haven’t spoke in 6 months). I was like umm congrats but i have to go now. She started crying and said she needs my help? I was like umm come again? She said her boyfriend was going to prison because sunday he got CAUGHT selling hardcore drugs to undercover cops and he is facing 5 years in prison (2nd offense) because of the load of drugs they found on his car. She is crying for me to let her come back and live the nice life she took for granted and acourse we all know girls like the badboys until he is to bad and then they always come back to the nice-guys as an second option when things dont work out with the badboy. I know this isn’t my baby because she never wanted to have sex with me and every-time i tried she would push me away but then she goes out and meet this guy and ended up having sex with him that week? Oh-well i guess that’s just another rule on why nice guys shouldn’t be nice guys. She said she is coming down this weekend and i told her NO GO TO A SHELTER OR PARENTS HOUSE! But if she does come where can i direct her to because she sure aint staying with me again?

financi4 answers:

Wow Mark,

I am sorry to hear that. Don’t stop being a nice guy; the world needs those nowadays. It sounds like you did the right thing, you were courteous, despite probably being hurt and confused by her decision to leave you. If she comes to your house, you can do exactly what you did over the phone — stand your ground — and redirect her to a place that will be good for her and the baby. Please stay polite, listen — if you feel you need to –, but be firm. I wish you all the best.

George asks…

How can i tell my ex-girlfriend NOT to come back to my house because she is pregnant with another guys baby?

So she broke up with me and its been about a year now. I gave her a very nice life when she lived with me in my house. She didn’t have to work, just keep the house clean as this was her choice, she could of work also but i gave her the option to do what she wanted. I worked (my own business) and made enough for us to live very good and have made over 1 million dollars from stocks and bonds and i took care of the bills and our two cars. I have a house in Los Angeles. Well she and her girlfriends went out to a bar while i was at work and she met a guy who just got out a divorce with 3 kids. She ended up breaking up with me and moved with him to San Francisco. There was no phone call or sit-down conversation or anything explaining why she left. She just came home one day and said she was leaving me. Well monday she called saying that she was pregnant (we haven’t spoke in 6 months). I was like umm congrats but i have to go now. She started crying and said she needs my help? I was like umm come again? She said her boyfriend was going to prison because sunday he got CAUGHT selling hardcore drugs to undercover cops and he is facing 5 years in prison (2nd offense) because of the load of drugs they found on his car. She is crying for me to let her come back and live the nice life she took for granted and acourse we all know girls like the badboys until he is to bad and then they always come back to the nice-guys as an second option when things dont work out with the badboy. I know this isn’t my baby because she never wanted to have sex with me and every-time i tried she would push me away but then she goes out and meet this guy and ended up having sex with him that week? Oh-well i guess that’s just another rule on why nice guys shouldn’t be nice guys. She said she is coming down this weekend and i told her NO GO TO A SHELTER OR PARENTS HOUSE! But if she does come where can i direct her to because she sure aint staying with me again?

financi4 answers:

Tell her to go find her own place to stay. Keep your doors locked and if you haven’t already you should change your locks. If she refuses to leave your house call the police and they’ll remove her. If she comes back call them again and then eventually if she doesn’t leave you alone, get a restraining order.

Thomas asks…

How can i tell my ex-girlfriend NOT to come back to my house because she is pregnant with another guys baby?

So she broke up with me and its been about a year now. I gave her a very nice life when she lived with me in my house. She didn’t have to work, just keep the house clean as this was her choice, she could of work also but i gave her the option to do what she wanted. I worked (my own business) and made enough for us to live very good and have made over 1 million dollars from stocks and bonds and i took care of the bills and our two cars. I have a house in Los Angeles. Well she and her girlfriends went out to a bar while i was at work and she met a guy who just got out a divorce with 3 kids. She ended up breaking up with me and moved with him to San Francisco. There was no phone call or sit-down conversation or anything explaining why she left. She just came home one day and said she was leaving me. Well monday she called saying that she was pregnant (we haven’t spoke in 6 months). I was like umm congrats but i have to go now. She started crying and said she needs my help? I was like umm come again? She said her boyfriend was going to prison because sunday he got CAUGHT selling hardcore drugs to undercover cops and he is facing 5 years in prison (2nd offense) because of the load of drugs they found on his car. She is crying for me to let her come back and live the nice life she took for granted and acourse we all know girls like the badboys until he is to bad and then they always come back to the nice-guys as an second option when things dont work out with the badboy. I know this isn’t my baby because she never wanted to have sex with me and every-time i tried she would push me away but then she goes out and meet this guy and ended up having sex with him that week? Oh-well i guess that’s just another rule on why nice guys shouldn’t be nice guys. She said she is coming down this weekend and i told her NO GO TO A SHELTER OR PARENTS HOUSE! But if she does come where can i direct her to because she sure aint staying with me again?

financi4 answers:

If that were me I’d kindly tell her that I couldn’t help. It’s not your baby, she left you, and looks like she took you for granted. You are not obligated to help her. Don’t be a pushover. She can’t come into your house if don’t let her, so just don’t let her in. Even pretend that you’re not there. Just ignore her, really.

Charles asks…

How can i tell my ex-girlfriend NOT to come back to my house because she is pregnant with another guys baby?

So she broke up with me and its been about a year now. I gave her a very nice life when she lived with me in my house. She didn’t have to work, just keep the house clean as this was her choice, she could of work also but i gave her the option to do what she wanted. I worked (my own business) and made enough for us to live very good and have made over 1 million dollars from stocks and bonds and i took care of the bills and our two cars. I have a house in Los Angeles. Well she and her girlfriends went out to a bar while i was at work and she met a guy who just got out a divorce with 3 kids. She ended up breaking up with me and moved with him to San Francisco. There was no phone call or sit-down conversation or anything explaining why she left. She just came home one day and said she was leaving me. Well monday she called saying that she was pregnant (we haven’t spoke in 6 months). I was like umm congrats but i have to go now. She started crying and said she needs my help? I was like umm come again? She said her boyfriend was going to prison because sunday he got CAUGHT selling hardcore drugs to undercover cops and he is facing 5 years in prison (2nd offense) because of the load of drugs they found on his car. She is crying for me to let her come back and live the nice life she took for granted and acourse we all know girls like the badboys until he is to bad and then they always come back to the nice-guys as an second option when things dont work out with the badboy. I know this isn’t my baby because she never wanted to have sex with me and every-time i tried she would push me away but then she goes out and meet this guy and ended up having sex with him that week? Oh-well i guess that’s just another rule on why nice guys shouldn’t be nice guys. She said she is coming down this weekend and i told her NO GO TO A SHELTER OR PARENTS HOUSE! But if she does come where can i direct her to because she sure aint staying with me again?

financi4 answers:

Well bro, you pretty much answered your own question. If and when she comes to your door step just point her in the right direction of a shelter or give her a number to a program that will help her out. It’s harsh to say but your doing the right thing bro, your were wronged in the most heinous way, you kept a roof over her head, brought the bacon home, gave her a life most women can imagine, and when you wanted some affection, you were denied and forgotten. It’s just karma in your favor, any real man would react and jump at the chance to make a person like that pay the piper. Next time just moe careful in you selection so you don’t have repeat like this again bro. Good luck amigo

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